01 November 2009

To Answer Some FAQs

... Yes, I'm single again.
... No, I'm not back with my ex-hubby.
... No, I haven't had another post-break-up "Moment."
... And yes, I still believe in love, the kind of mature and enduring love that is based on commitment, not on ephemeral feelings.

38 comments:

♥ ruby ♥ said...

*hugs*

rudeboy said...

Oh. Oh, oh,oh.

You don't know me but - warm thoughts on this increasingly-chilly season, then.

♥ ruby ♥ said...

I am happy that despite what happened, you still believe in love. I don't normally hear that from people who have just ended a relationship.

I just wish the best for you! :)

*hugs again*

Anonymous said...

Hi MH. Sorry to hear that. Hugs.

i'm a narnian said...

kudos, to those who still believe. we only gain in life. :)

Misterhubs said...

Thanks. My cup now overfloweth with hugs.

Call me an idealist brainwashed by Disney movies but I refuse to make a failed relationship turn me into an old, bitter, cynical monkey on love. I choose to emerge from this experience a wiser, better, happier, more evolved human being. God only knows if I'll ever get the kind of love I deserve from a boyfriend but I won't quit being optimistic about my chances.

bunwich said...

for the past days, I was trying to look for confirmation... i had this feeling that you already ended the rel... swear, now i'm teary eyed. i dunno why, maybe because for quite sometime i was able to follow both your adventures and yours most specially...

i won't ask why, but i'll say "till next time".

Anonymous said...

i know this may sound weird in a Swimfan kind of way but thank goodness. i want you for myself, MH.

- manay sa tinapay

E said...

Misterhubs, you know im just a text away...Hope you be fine in no time...dito lang kami ok?

newton said...

;p

Sunshine said...

*hug hug hug* sorry to hear about that...
if it matters, your cyber-fans will be here for you....wishing you more love and happiness.
*hugs again*

red the mod said...

I don't doubt that you'd be able to bounce back after this, as you always do sir. If anything, your humor and irreverent wit show a capacity to glimpse the silver lining far beyond most. And, never were you a bitter, sore, uncompromising, close-to-psychosis ex. Whether the separation was an amicable settlement, or simply a conceding of arguments, pathos have always been a stronger salve than the ethos. And you don't need the brown-nosing either. I'm sure there are a whole lot out there just waiting and hoping to catch your attention, and maybe tickle your picky fancy.

To loosely quote Carrie Bradshaw; "Your a lawyer, I'm sure you can argue both sides to eternity, but once the heart decides, you can throw all your logic out the window." And, also "never look back."

Be well sir, and there is nothing wrong with being single on the holidays. The consumerism of our era have almost bastardized this beloved pagan-rooted celebration into a bevy of price tags and pretension. Me? I'd cozy up to a good book, have my mug at hand and a plate of freshly-cooked risotto.

Anonymous said...

Don't be sad it's over. Be glad that it ever happened. =)

Coffee MH? (_)> (_)>

-Conventional Wisdom -

Al said...

here's a *hug* from your twitter friend

Al said...

here's a *hug* from your twitter friend

Misterhubs said...

@bunwich: No. It wasn't me who ended it.

@Manay Sa Tinapay: I dunno if I'll be flattered or apply for a TRO. Joke. Thanks.

@E: Thanks for your text, friend. I was genuinely touched.

@Sunshine: Thanks.

@Red the Mod: Thanks. I'm actually looking forward to Christmas.

@Conventional Wisdom: You!! I'll text you soon when I'm free for coffee. I miss your company.

@Al: Thanks.

ultimatekyle said...

Hi MisterHubs I am sad to hear that :(

ArchieMD said...

doctors are really bad lovers. argh

Pinoy Gay Guy Confidential said...

Misterhubs,

I feel for you. I am glad whatever happened has not jaded you.

Here's hoping the next one , is the "ONE"

bunwich said...

*hugs*

rjpebs said...

*HUGS* for you.

Anonymous said...

I also ended a relationship of two years about a month ago. and i chose to leave the past behind and moved on.

Pain is inevitable. Suffering is optional.

;-) rigortiz

Misterhubs said...

@rjpebs *bear hugs*

@rigortiz good for you. that makes the two of us.

Anonymous said...

MH, doesn't it feel so good to have so many people love you and care about you? Here's one more: hugs

Anonymous said...

someday, someone's gonna come into your life and really love you the way you've always deserved and wanted.

-hugs- :)

Anonymous said...

Uh-oh. As expected.

Try to find "love" again, break up... and the cycle never ends.

jumpin rooftops said...

hmmm if I remembered right, I didn't see a slash mark over #3 when you first posted this... I'm sorry MH.

Chuckie said...

This blog is simply AMAZING. The best blog i ever read so far. I've been laughing the whole day reading your blog. Very well written and there's that twist and depth in each article.

Here's one of your newest follower,
Chuckie

Lance C. said...

*hugs*

♥ ruby ♥ said...

*hugs again* hehehe. :D

Anonymous said...

for all those "hugs", i think you should change your name to....misterhugs...haha

Anonymous said...

awwww. so sad to hear this. hope you are doing fine now. take heart. hugs, too. :)

bong a

Chuck said...

Never stop and continue walking Misterhubs. This too shall pass. I wish you all the happiness in the world. :)

Misterhubs said...

Thanks for the hugs, guys.
Thanks for the kind words, Chuckie.
I'm pleased to report that I'm happy and cute. =)
I'll try to get my blogging mojo back soon, promise.

Hugugugugugugugs!

Mr. Scheez said...

*hugs*

John said...

be happy, misterhubs.

added one more to the pile... hugs :-)

john

John said...

"... And yes, I still believe in love, the kind of mature and enduring love that is based on commitment, not on ephemeral feelings."

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exactly, misterhubs.
and that is why high school is only four years :-)

john

Misterhubs said...

"and that is why high school is only four years"

This made me laugh. Thanks, John. Hugs back at you! =)

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